Day 23. Kathmandu
I ate too much last night; didn't sleep very well. Or - or maybe I'm just not used to sleeping inside. Had a shower this morning - yay, but it was a cold one - brrrr! After returning the blue kit bags to Sangye we had breakfast at 8. Then we piled into the hotel van and went to ancient district of Patan. This was once a separate city-state, but is now a suburb of Kathmandu. "It's an architectural feast, at the centre of which is Durbar Square." There are certainly a lot of very old Hindu temples. We chose not to hire a guide so we just wandered around for a bit. As non-Hindus we couldn't go into the temples and we didn't pay for the museum so we just saw some of the (impressive!) surface stuff. We went to a "fair trade" store down one of the alleys, where I bought 3 pashminas - one each for Jessica, Sarah & me. I like them all, so hopefully I'll be able to part with two.
Then it was off to a roof-top restaurant for lunch, after which we wandered back out and caught taxis to Pashupatinath. "Beside the sacred Bagmati River, this is one of the most revered Hindu temples on the Indian subcontinent. Entry to the main temple is barred to non-Hindus. Dedicated to Shiva - the destroyer and creator - stone linga fertility symbols are everywhere. Cremations take place on the banks of the river, providing a morbid tourist attraction." It was, indeed, a fascinating place to visit. We did watch some of the cremation activity, and learned that the average man takes about 3.5 hours to burn and women take about 4 hours, due to generally more water and fat. The flame is initially set on the lips. The oldest son initiates the flame for the father, and the youngest son for the mother. Then straw is piled on top to keep it burning. There were 3 or 4 cremations going on when we were there. Apparently they go on continuously. Once completed, the ashes are put in the river. This river is apparently used to eventually flow into the Ganges. The only thing that doesn't burn is the belly button, and this is retrieved by the family. Bodies are burned within hours of dying. Different castes are assigned to different sections of the river. The smell was OK - just smelled like smoke.
We spent a fair amount of time walking around the area. There are lots of Hindu religious structures and some really outrageously dressed, coiffed, and coloured holy men (ascetics?) who don't want their pictures taken. They're also shockingly skinny. There are tons of phallic symbols about. The river itself is disgustingly dirty with lots of garbage in it (as well as ashes, raw sewage, and other waste). From both of the places that we visited today, I get the sense that the Hindu people are much less hygenic than the Buddhists. But then, I thought that even before today.
Our taxi drivers are waiting for us; time to go. Folks were haggling over price, but I thought it was OK. 1500 rps per car to take us from Patan to Pashupatinath to Thamel. That equates to less than $20. Driving here is such a nightmare! I felt exhausted after just sitting in the car for the ride. Once back to the hotel I got some money changed, bought (and ate) some cookies and chips, and read sections of my Nepal book. The power is currently off, so no internet or TV. I took some laundry downstairs to be done; they'll have it back to me by tomorrow night. Good service..... Meeting for dinner @ 7. There went another full day!